Posted in Autobiography, Faith, Inspiration, Love, Relationships, Review, Women

Brave Review: Lost and Found

“Lost and Found” is a pouring out of a heart that has been through so much.

A pouring out of a brave woman. In Sarah Jakes’ story, everyone is bound to recognize something they can relate to.

Her sincere words and vulnerability to share so much is what makes this book so impactful.
Some pages are certainly difficult to read.

Sometimes you need to pause to take it all in, especially if you’ve walked a similar path, encountered things that have hurt your heart and soul, or experienced some hard things that are better left unsaid.

She talks about her road to healing, grace and how she regained wholeness to blossoming into the confident, graceful and amazing woman she is today.

Hers is a story of grace, hope and Love Divine. Certainly a good read for anyone at crossroads today.
Especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

Posted in Article, Business, Career, Leadership

Article: Productive Meetings

Is a cringe your reaction to a scheduled meeting?
If ‘Yes’, then you’ve certainly grown accustomed to attending boring, stressful and unproductive meetings and you undoubtedly don’t look forward to attending another.

If ‘No’, then some of the points we will highlight below will resonate with you as a result of your experience and attendance of great and productive meetings.

With the current world changes and the adoption of digital work places, it is now more important than ever to have effective and productive meetings.

Meetings don’t have to be unproductive and a big waste of time, resources, conversations and Energy. Meetings can indeed be an enjoyable experience. One that yield results over promises.

This goes beyond just physical meetings or board room meeting, but includes virtual and remote assemblies.


WHAT MAKES MEETINGS PRODUCTIVE?

Here are a few pointers towards productive meetings.

Have an Agenda and End Goal: The most effective meetings are those with a definite plan from the initiator. This is important because a meeting without an agenda would certainly be a waste of time. This helps shape conversations and gives room for suggestions from team members to share ideas on how to reach the end goal, project or task ahead.

Ensure The Resources Required for the Meeting Are Available: Think ahead of the meeting and what would be required to make it a success. Do you need presentation slides, projectors, microphones or an electric source to power your gadgets? Do you need a meeting place? A physical meeting room or a virtual workplace or a call app installed or an Internet source?

Do you need the services of a Food vendor or Pastry Chef for your meeting? Think of all these things ahead of time and make intentional effort to identify those required to execute successfully, especially your first meeting.


Send Out Notifications On Time and Be On Time: Early notifications help people decide if they can make a meeting or not and if they will be prompt. Emergency meetings are never the best. For crucial and longer meeting, a 48hrs notice is the least time to send out invites to all parties involved.

Never go to a meeting late.Be prompt and on time, at least 15 minutes before your scheduled appointment. It shows you both value the time of the other person. Also, if you’ve initiated a meeting, be ready to receive or meet the invitees. Never let them meet you in a state of disorder. It comes off as unprofessional.

Create Room For Everyone or Key Individuals To Speak: As much as meetings can sometimes get heating with strong opinions. It is important to give room for everyone to speak, share their opinion or give valuable feedback. It shows that you respect the opinion of others, even if you may not agree with their line of thought for that specific topic of focus at the meeting.

It is also important to know when to pick up cues to speak. This involves some discretion and emotional intelligence, and it should be done with thoughtfulness, precision, assertiveness and possibly proffered resolutions. It is rude to hijack a conversation in any meeting.
Be polite by being considerate about the time and opinion of others in attendance.


Have a Defined Time Span for The Meeting: Don’t schedule a meeting for one (1) hour and then extend it by half an hour. It shows disregard for the people you’ve called for a meeting. Stick to the plan and if you must extend the time, be sure to seek the consent of those at the meeting.
Consent for extra time should however not become a habit.

It only portrays that one is unprincipled and undisciplined. People respect those who respect their time. A definite time span also helps all parties involved to walk through their diverse schedules for the day without unnecessary disruptions of their personal plans.

Outline Action Steps to be Taken from The Meeting: A short recap of the meeting with assigned tasks and action items is so important.
One needs to identify who is responsible for what (the drivers and enablers), the timeline for delivery, and possibly the resources required to make the execution of all assigned tasks easy and effective. An email note or the minutes of the meeting should be circled back at least in 48 hours, to keep everyone informed and on track.


Follow Up with Tasks: It is important to send reminders or follow up with key leads on tasks assigned. A leadership flow approach can work effectively, by following up with team leads or key drivers to get the work done.

Reconvene a Follow-up Meeting to Finalize or Discuss The End Results: Sometimes, one meeting is sufficient to get some tasks done. But in most cases, you may need a few more to tidy up details regarding an end goal or a project. In such meetings, try to identify key things achieved, improvement opportunities and what needs to be finalized.
 
At this stage, it is important to try not to make additional meetings a period to pull down existing plans already in motion.
This can be mentally and emotionally draining for project managers and key drivers. Some resources may also be wasted in the process. Instead, think of ways to curtail changes already in motion. Only adapt new plans that will enhance the execution process and the success of a task or end goal.


Finally, as much as we know that meetings are often for serious business, try to make them more fun and less tense. Introducing ice-breakers and sometimes small bites or food or tea breaks for longer assemblies or conferences can make meeting more relaxing and productive.
This in the long run, minimizes valid distractions like feeling hungry or the need to use the restroom or make a call.


I hope you found this article to be insightful and helpful.
Thank you for reading.


Article by Opeolu Adeyemi.
Corporate Communications and Public Relations Consultant
Founder, Brave Publicity Ink!


Posted in Business, Career, Entrepreneurship, Leadership, Review, Vision

Brave Review: The 21 Irrefutable Laws Of Leadership

Leadership can be a very dicey path and can sometimes be very complex.
With a lot of believe in the many myths and assumptions of leadership.It is certainly clear that this remains an important discuss and area of focus for all people.


John C. Maxwell, a leadership expert, speaker, Coach, Author and Influencer, with over 4 decades of experience in leadership development and growth; he shares some great insight in his book, “The 21 Irrefutable Laws Of Leadership”.


This revised and updated version shows a depth of knowledge from one who has walked the talk, conversed with a wide array and network of diverse leaders across industries globally. Training, coaching, mentoring and grooming many leaders via his books and leadership conferences.


The 21 Irrefutable Laws Of Leadership is a great read, if you’re looking to improve on your leadership competency, impact and success.


The great news is, this book is for all people, not just positional or industry leaders.
Certainly a great recommendation for all who desire to have a great leadership journey and a sustainable and impact full legacy.

Posted in Article, Business, Finance, Money, Self development

Article: The Financial Pig

You are most likely to get offended when someone says to you: “You are such a pig!”. This is possibly because of the unattractive nature and habits generally associated with pigs.

The Nature of Pigs.

Pigs care less about their environment, and will happily wallow in mud and dirt. They are excited about eating all the time, anything and almost everything that comes their way, including food from dumps!
The irony about this creature is, it also happens to also be a symbol for money savings and wealth, and is easily recognized world-wide.
It is worthy to note that, the value placed on pigs is not determined by their behavioral nature, but by what can be harnessed from them.


The Value of Pigs.

From a pig, one is able to obtain hide and skin, for manufacturing costly and valuable leather products (shoes, bags, purses etc.), their hair can also be used for making brushes, their meat for making beacon, their fat for the production of cosmetic products, and even gelatin for food and non-food products like toothpaste, pizza etc.

As attractive as some of these highlighted values may seem, many people rarely indulge willingly in commercial pig farming, because of the herculean tasks it entails in rearing them. What most likely repels people the most is the smelly nature of pigs and difficulty in coping with such bad odor all day long.

So the job of rearing pigs can be a difficult one. The same applies to financial discipline or the mastery of savings.

It is worthy to note that, the bigger a pig is, the bigger the chances of harnessing much value from it. The same principle also applies to our personal finances and money management skills. The bigger our financial capacity, the bigger the investment opportunities before us.


The Piggy Bank.

Ever wondered why the pig has for a long time been an identity for petty savings items, made into boxes shaped mostly as an attractive pink or white pig item for saving some money?
The piggy bank has for a long time been a symbol for financial savings, especially one used in the home, by young children and young adults.

It represents strongly finance, especially the savings habit that one hopes to inculcate from a tender age to adulthood. So when the image or the thought of a pig comes to mind, please think again and think about how your finances are doing.


Two Kinds of Financial Managers.

There are two kinds of people when it comes to financial management, those who operate their finances based on their immediate wants and those that operate their finances in view of the future.

Those who operate their finances based on their immediate wants, splurging on whatever comes their way, without a care in the world about tomorrow. They love to live in the moment, enjoying all of their earnings and what it has to offer in that moment. They only like to think about the future, when they reach cross roads and never think to plan ahead.

Then, there are those who operate their finances in view of the future, reserving and compounding their financial spendings, for the value that will be obtained from it in the long run. They ensure that their finances are robust and ready for the harvest of great investments.

So you should ask yourself these often: Are you spending all of the resources that come your way? Or are you ensuring that your financial pig or piggy bank is well fed and robust to produce much in the days ahead, to secure a bright future, full of prospects and limitless opportunities?


Your Relationship with Money.

Maybe you don’t exactly have a great relationship with money or your finances and feel justified to splurge on things you think you need, since your earnings are really small.

Well, let’s let you in on a secret.
No matter how much you earn, if you are unable to master the art of “Savings and Investments” from very little earnings, even when you have so much more, you’ll find yourself operating your finances based on only your immediate wants.


Some Solutions.

There are a few ways to effectively manage and grow a robust financial pig and they include some of the following:

Have a Budget:

A budget helps you know how much needs to be allocated for your spendings, gifts, savings and investments. With a budget, you are able to stick to a precise amount and percentage for all of your allocations.


Track your Spendings:

With a daily or weekly budget and tracking system, it’s easy to know where your money goes and adjust accordingly, when you discover that you are going beyond your daily or weekly allocations.

Without keeping track of where your money goes, it becomes easy for your finances to grow wings or just disappear without tangible proof of what you’ve done with your money.

Simple tools like your mobile phone and applications like Microsoft-Excel can prove to be very useful for tracking. There are also numerous fee applications that are ready to use and can be accessed from some online stores, to aid financial tracking.


Have an Intentional Savings Plan:

A percentage of your earnings for savings is non-negotiable, irrespective of how small you may be earning. This is like paying yourself a percentage for all of your hard work.
This percentage should be increased over times, just as your earnings also increase. To achieve this, it may mean having a bank arrangement that enables automatic deductions of a percentage of your earnings or bars you from being able to withdraw beyond a specific amount for a period of time.

You could also put aside your savings manually, into a separate account with no easy access such as services that include: ATMs, Credit Cards or Online Banking access.
The bottom line is, ensure you intentionally grow a robust financial pig. So you can have something to fall back on for the rainy days or have something tangible for great investments opportunities that may come your way.


Make Careful Investments:

It’s not enough to grow a robust financial pig, you must find ways to multiply what you have. Just as the value of a pig lies not in being just fat and big, but in being able to harness other things from it.
The same principle applies to your saved up finances, you must find ways to make profitable trade. So do your research and make careful and wise investment.

Beware of quick money making schemes, and investment models that you do not understand. Many today have lost their hard earned money from such numerous Ponzi schemes. So do your research and ask the relevant questions before taking a plunge.

It is worthy to note that, some of the best investment opportunities are in things that appreciate over time and things that are required for or are non-negotiable for everyday living. Such as ‘land’ for real estate investments, ‘food’ etc.


In conclusion.

It’s really no coincidence that the home made piggy bank for putting aside petty cash in homes often comes designed as a pig. We hope it serves as a reminder about the value that can be obtained from the mastery of the difficult habit of financial discipline.
We also hope whenever you sight a piggy bank or an actual pig, it also serves as a subtle reminder to grow a robust financial pig and operate your finances in view of the future. Simply by mastering the art of “Savings and Investments”.

Thank you for reading.


Article by Opeolu Adeyemi.
Corporate Communications and Public Relations Consultant
Founder, Brave Publicity Ink!


Posted in Faith, Fiction, Love, Novel, Review, Women

Brave Review: Divine

“Divine” is a novel that depicts the life of a modern day Mary Magdalene, only this time,  she is one named “Mary Madison”.
A novel about an influential woman in society, but one with a past. A past that evokes whispers. A past that is shunned by society and often never spoken of in public.

“Divine” is a difficult read.
It shows the horrors of many women in today’s society, trafficked, trapped and abused. Some whose lives may never remain the same or have the hope of experiencing some normalcy.
Survivors whose lives can only be redeemed by God’s divine love and comfort.

Mary Madison is only one of those many women, with many horrors.
Abused from a tender age, she is forced to face once more this past, for the sake of the freedom of a community of girls and women, those whom she has come to have such strong compassion for.

“Divine” also depicts friendship and love. Steadfast and Strong. One that stays consistent and committed through her difficulty.

“Divine” is a book that tugs at the strings of the heart and shows just how powerful God’s love can be, even in the deepest darkness.

It is also a MUST READ for every LEADER who cares about all those endangered by a corrupt and selfish system.
For every leader at heart and in position capable of implementing real change that can empower survivors of abuse and pain to truly live again.

Thankful for such a wonderful and eye opening story by Karen Kingsbury.