Posted in Article, Autobiography, Boss Shoes, Inspiration

A Thousand Milestones Unlocked


Today, the Instagram metric shows that I have posted 1000 content since inception.🤍

While many may celebrate instead a thousand followers’ milestone, I choose to acknowledge this metric because it signifies the number of times, I showed up in building my business brand and the digital footprint for Brave Publicity across social media, with a combined following of over 7000 people.

I have showed up in health and when ill, tired or weary, when weak and when strong. I have showed up when certain and when I was uncertain, when encouraged and when I was discouraged, when I won and lost opportunities, and even when I failed in attempts and when I succeeded.

For me, it represents my resilience on this journey.

The irony is, this is solely for the Brave Publicity brand as a business, as more has been done in efforts to serve other people and brands while gradually on track towards a thousand post and more.
With multiple designs, slides, video production, content creation, copywriting, editing and all of the effort that goes into creating, media production and driving publicity, I’ve certainly churned out more than a thousand posts. This for me, simply represents much strength.

Through the years, I learnt to embrace the imperfect when striving for excellence.

Many designs and edits would have remained in my drafts, but I was willing to try and to put out my craft.
In doing this, I witnessed much growth and observed the transformation of my craft through its growth stages that still remain. It was easy to see the difference because I was willing to put out what may have seemed imperfect at the start.

I believe that excellence is always in motion, so we must go for progress, not perfection.

I believe this because, most of what we may perceive as excellent today often change by standards in the future. In retrospect, we can always spot the imperfections and improvement opportunities, but it is the journey of growth makes us proud.

I also learnt to let others hear my voice and see my face, embracing many cringe moments.

In the early days, it felt strange to hear my own voice or speak into a lens with no one in sight. During reviews of edits and drafts, I needed to learn to let go of what I hoped it would be and embrace what was.

On bad hair days, on days when my face was puffy, on days when I had an acne break out, on days when I felt I looked fat or my face was too big on the screen, on days when the lightning was poor or the audio quality bad, on days when I forgot to turn on the mic, failed to review on site and there was no room for a retake or re-shoot. I learnt to let go of the imperfect, embraced the hard lessons and improve the next execution.

But most importantly, I learnt to create structures that aided consistency.

From day one, there has always been a brand blue-print and with God’s help, I have gotten closer each day to what the vision is – in brand communication, execution and service.

Inching gradually towards a thousand+ content/ posts has required much humility, growth and an open mind to remain a life-long student.

I don’t assume I know everything, even though I am very much aware of my capacity.

To not understand your current value may lead to undermining what you bring to the table. When you don’t know what you have, those without a moral compass and conscience would take advantage of you.
So, while I remain self-aware, I also remain humble enough to learn without undermining what I already know. Being a lifelong student is the bridge towards improved professionalism, success and growth.

I have learnt from various people. Those who have led me and taught me, those I have led and those I have served. Knowledge does not discriminate and isn’t age centric, anyone can have it and anyone can learn from one who has it, including learning from formal institutions of education.

Sometimes you learn the craft, and at other times you learn the lessons about people, the craft or the industry.

With structures, consistency was easier to embrace, even on the hard days, as this helps the vision remains front and center.

There were days I felt tired and quitting would sometime cross my mind, but I always knew that it was never an option, only resting was.

So, on days I felt fatigued, stressed or tired, I would rest and then continue, while having the understanding that every vision is in its stages. As a time would come when the support of a bigger team would keep things moving.
For now, I embrace the line of thinking that:

I may not where I want to be, but thank God I am not where I used to be.

I don’t know what requires your ability to show up consistently, so I hope that this heartfelt note of my journey inspires you and helps you see what is possible only if you believe, start and stay consistent.

Thank you for sticking with me.
Cheers to a thousand and more milestones at Brave Publicity.🤍


Article by Opeolu Adeyemi.
Founder/ Consultant, Brave Publicity Ink!

Posted in Article, Autobiography, Boss Shoes, Inspiration

Turning Thirty: 30 Simple Lessons!


As I approached turning 30 on the 1st of November this year.
I had multiple moments of reflection on my journey and life so far.
While I documented a number of things, and spent some time apart to fast, pray, reflect and prepare for the next phase of my life.

I also thought about what to share in a simplified form with people in my circle of influence.
So here are 30 lessons or nuggets you may find as useful.

Wishing you a splendid week.🤍



1. You are not helpless.
There is always a seed in your hand.
Ideas, Gifts, Talents.
Don’t disregard that seed because it comes easy to you or seems too small.

2. Put your best foot forward. Always!

3. Correct people in love.

4. Be the friend you want.

5. Focus on what’s before you. Your lane is yours.

6. Smell good. Smell good for yourself first. Make sitting beside others a pleasant and comfortable experience.

7. You can’t buy the affection of anyone or perform to get their affection.

8. Be yourself and improve to become a better version of yourself. Do it for you.

9. Be happy and laugh often, life is too short to live a sad and empty life.

10. Take joy in the little and big things. Enjoy those moments and let them encourage you.


11. Some of the best advice will come from those much younger than you are, so be open minded.

12. Give your younger siblings the respect they deserve.

13. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, there is no shame in that.

14. Dream big, but start young.

15. Don’t be afraid to start again. With God’s guidance, you can build better this time around.

16. Don’t let the unrealistic pressures of society, dictate how you should live or spend your money.

17. Be prudent with what you have, live within your means and try to have multiple streams of passive income.

18. Don’t give up before you begin to see the rewards.

19. It’s okay to stop, if it’s costing you your peace of mind, health or finances.

20. Prioritize taking care of yourself. There’s no need to feel guilty.


21. Pay attention to your body. Don’t ignore signs when you are overworked, tired or need better care.

22. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Stop stressing over the small things.

23. Just be kind.

24. The world doesn’t revolve around you alone, so be sensitive enough to observe when others need your help.

25. If you don’t have firsthand knowledge about something or someone, give things time.

26. Don’t be a gossip.

27. Handle disagreements with grace. Diverse perspectives help you understand people and also see the world the way others see it.

28. Stop worrying. Pray instead, then do your best and leave the rest.

29. Pray ooo. Don’t get tired of praying. Pray about everything and anything. God listens but you also need to listen too.

30. God loves you unconditionally, so you can learn to love, and trust Him.

Thanks for reading.🤍


Article by Opeolu Adeyemi.
Corporate Communications and Public Relations Consultant.
Founder, Brave Publicity Ink!

Posted in Business, Career, Review, Women

Brave Review: How Women Rise

Reading “How Women Rise” by Sally Helgensen and Marshall Goldsmith has really been an eye opening book.😌

In reading this book, business owners, and leaders across all levels, particularly women, will certainly certainly experience a mind shift.

For centuries, women have continued to accomplish outstanding feats.

However due to many constraints (economic or environmental, self imposed) and limiting thought patterns, the progressive contributions and innovations in business and leadership by women across all sectors has received less recognition than it deserves.

In reading this book, you would learn a whole lot:

1. You will learn to embrace your strengths.
2. You will learn to identify your weaknesses, self sabotaging habits and how to overcome them.
3. You will learn how to enlist the right help and strategic support needed to forge ahead.
4. You will learn about the importance of effective communication, speak up for yourself, your work and your accomplishments.
5. You will learn the importance of setting the right boundaries, saying ‘No’ to the wrong opportunities and saying ‘Yes’ to the right opportunities
6. You will learn the importance of authenticity and why this is crucial to your progressive movement as a leader and woman.
These and lots more are turning points from reading this book.

With case studies and real stories of people that remain memorable and relatable, this is certainly one book you will enjoy reading alone or with friends!
A highly recommended read, authored by @sally_helgesen and @coachgoldsmith.😊🙌🏽

Posted in Review, Women

Brave Review: Craving Connection

Craving Connection. 30 women dissect 30 challenges under interesting topics addressing Self, God, Friends and Community. Everything that makes friendships worth the while.

If making friends has been a bit of a challenge or, being a good friend, or fitting in, or navigating the difficulties of friendships, and all the complexities that comes with the friends-zone, then this is a good book for you.

Reading through this book is like reading the minds or journals of amazing yet imperfect women, who have somehow over the years, identified helpful insights, truths and principles that makes friendships work and community worth the while.

If any thing, this book emphasizes that no one is designed to do life alone.

We all need good friends and community, to help us through our life’s journey. To ease the burden, to laugh, to smile, to grow, to cry, to pray and to encourage each other to shine brightly in our diverse and distinct gifts for purpose.

With practical insight, fun engagement activities, and connection challenges for each of the 30 Challenges covered in this book; this is certainly a rewarding and great read. Sure to bring much improvement to your circle of friends and beloved community.

Really, “Craving Connection” by the (in)courage community (@incourage) speaks to the heart, and you will be gently inspired and encouraged to become a better friend and also recognize those other special people in your life.

A highly recommended read!😊

Posted in Podcast, Publicity Posts

The Brave Publicity Podcast, Episode 12: Your Dreams and Order

We’ve got a brand new podcast up!🎧😆🥰

This episode highlights the influence of the mind on our dream and actions, the place of purpose and order, and what perspective to take when our dreams don’t play out exactly as we envision them.

Listen in now to “Your Dreams and Order”, Episode 12 of the Brave Publicity Podcast!

Listen in here: https://bravepublicity.com/podcast/
Enjoy!