Posted in Article, Autobiography, Boss Shoes, Inspiration

A Thousand Milestones Unlocked


Today, the Instagram metric shows that I have posted 1000 content since inception.🤍

While many may celebrate instead a thousand followers’ milestone, I choose to acknowledge this metric because it signifies the number of times, I showed up in building my business brand and the digital footprint for Brave Publicity across social media, with a combined following of over 7000 people.

I have showed up in health and when ill, tired or weary, when weak and when strong. I have showed up when certain and when I was uncertain, when encouraged and when I was discouraged, when I won and lost opportunities, and even when I failed in attempts and when I succeeded.

For me, it represents my resilience on this journey.

The irony is, this is solely for the Brave Publicity brand as a business, as more has been done in efforts to serve other people and brands while gradually on track towards a thousand post and more.
With multiple designs, slides, video production, content creation, copywriting, editing and all of the effort that goes into creating, media production and driving publicity, I’ve certainly churned out more than a thousand posts. This for me, simply represents much strength.

Through the years, I learnt to embrace the imperfect when striving for excellence.

Many designs and edits would have remained in my drafts, but I was willing to try and to put out my craft.
In doing this, I witnessed much growth and observed the transformation of my craft through its growth stages that still remain. It was easy to see the difference because I was willing to put out what may have seemed imperfect at the start.

I believe that excellence is always in motion, so we must go for progress, not perfection.

I believe this because, most of what we may perceive as excellent today often change by standards in the future. In retrospect, we can always spot the imperfections and improvement opportunities, but it is the journey of growth makes us proud.

I also learnt to let others hear my voice and see my face, embracing many cringe moments.

In the early days, it felt strange to hear my own voice or speak into a lens with no one in sight. During reviews of edits and drafts, I needed to learn to let go of what I hoped it would be and embrace what was.

On bad hair days, on days when my face was puffy, on days when I had an acne break out, on days when I felt I looked fat or my face was too big on the screen, on days when the lightning was poor or the audio quality bad, on days when I forgot to turn on the mic, failed to review on site and there was no room for a retake or re-shoot. I learnt to let go of the imperfect, embraced the hard lessons and improve the next execution.

But most importantly, I learnt to create structures that aided consistency.

From day one, there has always been a brand blue-print and with God’s help, I have gotten closer each day to what the vision is – in brand communication, execution and service.

Inching gradually towards a thousand+ content/ posts has required much humility, growth and an open mind to remain a life-long student.

I don’t assume I know everything, even though I am very much aware of my capacity.

To not understand your current value may lead to undermining what you bring to the table. When you don’t know what you have, those without a moral compass and conscience would take advantage of you.
So, while I remain self-aware, I also remain humble enough to learn without undermining what I already know. Being a lifelong student is the bridge towards improved professionalism, success and growth.

I have learnt from various people. Those who have led me and taught me, those I have led and those I have served. Knowledge does not discriminate and isn’t age centric, anyone can have it and anyone can learn from one who has it, including learning from formal institutions of education.

Sometimes you learn the craft, and at other times you learn the lessons about people, the craft or the industry.

With structures, consistency was easier to embrace, even on the hard days, as this helps the vision remains front and center.

There were days I felt tired and quitting would sometime cross my mind, but I always knew that it was never an option, only resting was.

So, on days I felt fatigued, stressed or tired, I would rest and then continue, while having the understanding that every vision is in its stages. As a time would come when the support of a bigger team would keep things moving.
For now, I embrace the line of thinking that:

I may not where I want to be, but thank God I am not where I used to be.

I don’t know what requires your ability to show up consistently, so I hope that this heartfelt note of my journey inspires you and helps you see what is possible only if you believe, start and stay consistent.

Thank you for sticking with me.
Cheers to a thousand and more milestones at Brave Publicity.🤍


Article by Opeolu Adeyemi.
Founder/ Consultant, Brave Publicity Ink!

Posted in Article, Autobiography, Boss Shoes, Inspiration

Turning Thirty: 30 Simple Lessons!


As I approached turning 30 on the 1st of November this year.
I had multiple moments of reflection on my journey and life so far.
While I documented a number of things, and spent some time apart to fast, pray, reflect and prepare for the next phase of my life.

I also thought about what to share in a simplified form with people in my circle of influence.
So here are 30 lessons or nuggets you may find as useful.

Wishing you a splendid week.🤍



1. You are not helpless.
There is always a seed in your hand.
Ideas, Gifts, Talents.
Don’t disregard that seed because it comes easy to you or seems too small.

2. Put your best foot forward. Always!

3. Correct people in love.

4. Be the friend you want.

5. Focus on what’s before you. Your lane is yours.

6. Smell good. Smell good for yourself first. Make sitting beside others a pleasant and comfortable experience.

7. You can’t buy the affection of anyone or perform to get their affection.

8. Be yourself and improve to become a better version of yourself. Do it for you.

9. Be happy and laugh often, life is too short to live a sad and empty life.

10. Take joy in the little and big things. Enjoy those moments and let them encourage you.


11. Some of the best advice will come from those much younger than you are, so be open minded.

12. Give your younger siblings the respect they deserve.

13. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, there is no shame in that.

14. Dream big, but start young.

15. Don’t be afraid to start again. With God’s guidance, you can build better this time around.

16. Don’t let the unrealistic pressures of society, dictate how you should live or spend your money.

17. Be prudent with what you have, live within your means and try to have multiple streams of passive income.

18. Don’t give up before you begin to see the rewards.

19. It’s okay to stop, if it’s costing you your peace of mind, health or finances.

20. Prioritize taking care of yourself. There’s no need to feel guilty.


21. Pay attention to your body. Don’t ignore signs when you are overworked, tired or need better care.

22. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Stop stressing over the small things.

23. Just be kind.

24. The world doesn’t revolve around you alone, so be sensitive enough to observe when others need your help.

25. If you don’t have firsthand knowledge about something or someone, give things time.

26. Don’t be a gossip.

27. Handle disagreements with grace. Diverse perspectives help you understand people and also see the world the way others see it.

28. Stop worrying. Pray instead, then do your best and leave the rest.

29. Pray ooo. Don’t get tired of praying. Pray about everything and anything. God listens but you also need to listen too.

30. God loves you unconditionally, so you can learn to love, and trust Him.

Thanks for reading.🤍


Article by Opeolu Adeyemi.
Corporate Communications and Public Relations Consultant.
Founder, Brave Publicity Ink!

Posted in Leadership, Review, Self development

Brave Review: Go For Gold

“Go for Gold” by John C. Maxwell is such an amazing book.
A little pocket sized and companion guide to “Leadership Gold”

I first came across this book in my final year as an undergraduate. It was a pivotal period in my life and the peak of my leadership experience while on campus.

It was such a great read, that you would find me smiling at myself while reading or nodding in agreement to the lessons I was being opened up to.
Curiosity got a hold of others around me that they would eventually ask about the book, as I carried it every where I went, even to our farm practice sessions. Lol!

Every chance I got, I read and it really helped me stay focused, organized and aligned as a young leader.
The small size of this book makes it so easy to read.

With a weekly schedule of 26 lessons broken into days of the work week and a notes section. Helping you reflect on what you’ve learnt, almost like a devotional.

So it’s so easy to read, even as you learn in small bites great lessons for impact as a leader.
I eventually got the main book Leadership Gold and I totally enjoyed that as well.

I highly recommend “Go for Gold” by John C. Maxwell.
It’s truly an amazing and empowering book for every leader, team member and business oriented individual.

Such a great book, full of so much actionable knowledge and much wisdom.
Gold truly!
Highly recommended.

Posted in Autobiography, Faith, Inspiration, Relationships, Review, Women

Brave Review: Becoming Fearless.

#BraveReview.
“Becoming Fearless” by the Season 6 Winner of “The Biggest Loser” reality show, Michelle Aguilar is one of the most inspiring and honest documentations in form of a book!

With thorough insight on overcoming real life challenges and working through them in the midst of much fear, pain, confusion and setbacks.
It is a book of a young woman’s experience in her journey through resilience and perseverance even when giving up seemed like a great choice.

Beyond winning, it is a true life story of forgiveness, reconciliation, purpose and the journey of learning to trust God beyond the shadows of doubt and fear.

Certainly a good read to encourage you in dark and challenging times!
One that inspires you to become fearless, against all odds!

Thank you Michelle Aguilar for this life transforming book!

Posted in Autobiography, Beauty, Faith, Inspiration, Love, Review, Women

Brave Review: Becoming a Spectacular Woman.

#BraveReview.
“Becoming A Spectacular Woman” is a book for all women of the world!..Written by the young woman and lady, Toluwani Obayan.

“Becoming a Spectacular Woman” is a book we describe as “Sincere”, “Heartfelt”, “Vulnerable” and “Deep”.
The words of the author reflect the heart of a young woman who is willing to become vulnerable with her personal experiences to help as many other young women as possible.

Her sincere words flow from a depth that many young women can easily relate to. Women at cross roads.Women hurting.Women who need wholeness inside out. Women who desire to love and to be loved. Women in pursuit of their dreams. Women with so much potential.Women who may need just a little more encouragement.

“Becoming a Spectacular Woman” is a book that addresses those salient matters of the heart and those elephants in the heart’s rooms.
Reading through every page will take the heart of a woman through a journey.Inviting some tears, a shift in perspective and some prayers.

It is a journey one may need to revisit again and again to ensure that no stone is left un-turned.
“Becoming A Spectacular Woman” is a perfect gift book for your girls, friends and that special lady.Those who you desire that they become Spectacular Women!

Thank you Toluwani Obayan for putting together such a fantastic book. One that echoes with the times, filled with so much wisdom, heart and love. This is absolutely a great read for all ladies!